Yes, I have 2 failed marriages now, one 7 yrs (11 yr relationship), the other 20 (+2). I knew the 2nd one was not going well, but had no idea it would fall apart so completely. He had 2 affairs, married the 2nd whore. He's been gone almost 3 yrs and I still haven't begun to recover.<br /><br />How funny! I'm glad you got over your first shock. You'd seen pix of him tho, hadn't you?<br /><br />You have a good weekend as well.