Sorry for the dissertation in the comments, George. It's a tricky quote with a ot of before's and now's and two slightly different ideas that I want to explain in the least verbose way possible while also making them clear. I also think that it is an important idea (Building your entire identity around your sexuality can limit you as a person--or something like this). Feel free to make any changes you want. I've already made some. I was going to send you several version but felt silly. Thank you! &nbsp;