Hi George, Just a quick question.&nbsp;<br /><br />I don't like the "I volunteer, but that's not a job" because that was never actually said and the problems with answering "I volunteer" is not the fact that it's not a job--neither is being a parent, at elast technically, but she would have said "I am a stay-at-home-mom" if teh kids were younger. So instead I am hesitating between a couple of other versions. One is, "I can't say 'Nothing' because I spend a lot of time volunteering, but it also sounds silly to say, 'I volunteer.'<br /><br />And 2) "I spend a lot of time volunteering, but it sounds silly to say, 'I volunteer.'<br /><br />First one seems a little clunky and the part about "nothing" is important but also somehow understood by saying, "I spend a lot of time volunteering."<br /><br />I am leaning towards 2). Thanks.&nbsp;